13.1. The Most Basic Gift and Skill. 

"The first service that one owes to others in the fellowship consists in listening to them", wrote Dietrich Bonhoeffer. What happens when a pastor or Christian friend listens well? In this section of the lecture Lee Eclov talks about the importance of the ministry of listening and identifying embedded theology that shapes a person's life and practices. Do you want to be in control and earn trust? Then learn to listen.